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• <b><b></b> <b></b> Step 1 :</b> know your limits. Sasaeng is a no. You're not their girlfriend/boyfriend. As hurtful as it is.<p><b>Step 2 :</b> respect them. Whatever decision they make, remember that you dont know them personally so you cant judge them. You don't know their intention.<p><b>Step 3 :</b> accept the fact that one day they will date. One day they will get married. Maybe theyre dating right now, who knows? Once you have prepared mentally for this before stanning them, you're good to go.<p><b>Step 4 :</b> remember that what they show on screen and what they dont show may be different.<p><b>Step 5 :</b> dont assume things. You're not as smart as you think. Not everything is a set up by their agencies, not everything is a trick. Sometimes what it is is what it is. Accept it.<p><b>Step 6 :</b> be there for them. Happiness together will be multiplied, sadness together can be divided.<p><b>Step 7 :</b> they may be called idols, but you can't idolise them too much to the point where your life depends on it. You can look up to them, but they're simply human with flaws and mistakes too. Remember that.<p><b>Step 8 :</b> be more open minded. Try out different fandoms. Dont be so judgemental. Dont be too biased. Sometimes you dont know what youre missing.<p><b>Step 9 :</b> respect other fandoms<p><b>Step 10 :</b> respect other idols even if you dont stan them.<p><b>Step 11 :</b> Respect. Respect. Respect.<p><p><p>

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